You are a collection of everything you have ever distilled from your life experiences. You create adaptations to painful scenarios, like loss of love. You then design different strategies to assist you in maneuvering through your life so you experience as little pain as possible. Your subconscious programming is triggered automatically. You must intercede on your own behalf to grow past its limitations. You must reprogram yourself for higher success if you are going to change. Are you ready to grow?